Being the Man everyone Likes is dangerous
In today’s edition, MisterJacque reflects on the danger of seeking everyone’s approval at the expense of personal convictions. Being a good man does not mean being a man everyone likes. Sometimes, integrity requires uncomfortable truths, firm boundaries and the courage to disappoint others rather than betray yourself.
Are we better?
Dear men, Are we better? As a sequel to my most recent letter to women, on evaluating their impact in partnerships and friendships, I write this to the men. I have always been bewildered by the story of Jesus cursing the fig tree. But as I grew older, I began to realise that at every […]
Men of our Words
In today’s edition, the 150th edition of MisterJacque letters, the author reflects on the weight our words carry and the trust built when our actions consistently match our promises.
Alone we are not much
In today’s edition, MisterJacque reflects on a truth many men overlook: we were never meant to walk alone. In a world that celebrates independence, God calls us to fellowship, accountability, encouragement and brotherhood. Sometimes being a brother means showing up, lifting another man and walking the journey together. Read on.
Stay There
In today’s edition, MisterJacque explores a challenge many men face: knowing when to move on and when to stay the course. While the world celebrates change and novelty, some of life’s greatest rewards are reserved for those who remain committed long after the excitement has faded. Could your next level be waiting where you are rather than somewhere new? Read on.
Be grateful where you are.
In today’s edition, MisterJacque challenges our tendency to chase the next level while overlooking the blessings already in our hands. Sometimes, the problem isn’t what we have, but how we have learned to see it. Be grateful where you are. Read on.
Rest is not laziness, it is maintenance.
Protect the engine that carries the burden. A wise man learns to rest before collapsing forces him to.
Don’t worry, it doesn’t really solve anything
Worry is a signal, not a solution — it shows something matters, but not what to do next. Don’t let it make a nest, take the wheel, or call the shots. Awareness that you are God’s child changes everything.
Leave the masses.
Decide that going forward you will leave the trap of popular thinking, the pity parties of complainers, and the company of those who have a problem with every solution. Step into leadership in your own life first.