Dear men,

Alone, we are not much.

This would be my second letter with this heading, but this one carries a slightly different emphasis.

We live in a world that celebrates independence, self-sufficiency and the ability to do everything alone. But the Christian life was never designed that way.

From the beginning, God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone.” God Himself recognised that man needed companionship. We were created for relationship—with Him and with one another.

Our faith makes demands of us to “Bear one another’s burdens.” “Encourage one another.” “Confess your sins to one another.” “Do not give up meeting together.” These are not suggestions for an occasional social life; they are instructions for how God expects His people to live.

So pursue, in a healthy manner, the company and fellowship of your kith and kin. Build friendships with men with whom you shate faith, where you hold each other up, challenge, correct and stand by each other on life’s journey.

True strength is not found in isolation but in unity. When we walk together, we sharpen one another like iron, we lift each other when one stumbles, and we contribute in no small way to our collective well being. Fellowship is not simply about companionship; it is about accountability, encouragement, and the shared pursuit of God’s plan for our lives. Alone, our vision is limited, but together, we see more clearly the path God has set before us.

Sometimes, brotherhood will require inconvenience. Show up. Make the call. Lend a hand. Sit with someone who is struggling.

Research has also linked meaningful social connection with better health and longevity.

God did not call us to walk alone. Find your brother, be a brother.

Think on these things as you anticipate next week’s letter.

JACK, Sogbeye

God’s Man